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It is not easy dating someone from a totally different country, much more someone from a very rich culture and tradition. In China, women are very traditional. They adhere to the culture they have grown up with along with the values that their mothers and grandmothers have taught them. It takes a lot to win a Chinese woman’s heart. Here are some basic tips in dating a Chinese woman for every man who has set their eyes on one.
Chinese women are well known for their fair, porcelain skin and neat appearance. You should not show up on a date looking like you just came from a coma. Take a bath and look as clean as you possibly can. Just like any woman, Chinese women prefer men who are neat and hygienic.
Arrive earlier than the time you agreed on. About 5 minutes early is fine but anything earlier than that might make her think that you are too eager. This will prevent you from being late. Every woman deserves to be met at the exact time you are supposed to meet her.
Give her a gift. It may not be her birthday but Chinese women love being pampered this way. It does not have to be something expensive. A long-stemmed rose is enough to make her feel special. This would also remove any hesitance she might have had with regards to dating you. Then you should be a total gentleman. Remember that Chinese women are traditional and are used to being delicate and taken care of by men.
During the date, ask her questions about herself. This is the main point of asking her out on a date in the first place. Get to know her better. It is recommended for you to do a little research with regards to China and their culture. Chinese women would definitely appreciate a guy who is interested about where she grew up. This would make her open up to you more.
Whether your date is Chinese or not, it is always appropriate to pay for the meal. Besides, you were the one who asked her out. However, if she would insist on going “Dutch” where the two of you split the bill, then do so. Make sure to bring her back home safely and walk her to her door. The kiss is always difficult to do because it may seem awkward. To be sure, ask her politely if you can kiss her or not. This would make a Chinese woman feel like her opinions and her decisions matter.
For Further Reading:
Things to Prepare Before Marrying a Chinese Citizen
Marrying Chinese Citizen Procedure and Requirements
The Transformation of the Traditional Chinese Woman
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